It's painful to hear because each one's aim is to win.
Nobody really ever wins an emotional fight.
You will not be awarded a medal for dominating the argument, just hatred and discord.
Who would want that?
Why can't it all just be passionate and loving discussion?
Conflicts may be a natural part of any relationship, but arguments and fights aren't/
You talk about the problem with the goal to solve it with less-to-no injury for both parties.
But most times, there are casualties and lots of blood.
Everyone ends up wounded and injured.. =(
"The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.
But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken."
Matthew 12: 35-36